Dr. Diana Hill
Learn evidenced-backed, contemplative ideas and practices to help you develop your psychological flexibility. If you want to put your efforts into what you care most about, this twice-monthly Wise Effort newsletter is for you. Join the Wise Effort newsletter community!
What is your movement genius?
Dear Reader, Last week, I asked you: "What is your movement genius?" And your answers came rolling in: Backpacking in the Redwoods. Shoveling snow! Just completed a 3-week foster of these now 1-month-old pups (rescue)! Currently, at age 56, I am a passionate Pole Dance educator, artist, and mover!!!! I’m currently teaching English in Bilbao, Spain, and have been enjoying lots of long runs along the coast alone and with friends. I’m a dance/movement therapist, so my movement genius is being...
Reclaiming your love for movement 💃🏻♥️
Dear Reader, I’ve had an ambivalent relationship with movement. As a child, I’d spend hours wandering the creek behind my house, searching for nasturtium flowers—driven by wonder and a need for solitude. But in my teens and twenties, those hours were spent climbing a stairmaster to nowhere. I spent the last two decades reclaiming my love for movement. And rediscovering my “movement genius.” (We all have one!) Your movement genius is the unique energy you feel when moving your body that...
24 things I learned for the millionth time in 2024
Dear Reader, We seem to re-learn the same lessons every year. Don’t overschedule yourself the day you return from vacation. This year, instead of coming up with New Year’s resolutions, I thought it might be handy to lean on lessons we’ve already learned. Oh, there are so many lessons to choose from! I discuss my top four in depth in the Wise Effort podcast. Enjoy a listen. But here’s my complete list of 24 for 2024. The 24 things I learned for the millionth time in 2024 Every moment is a...
This could be your last minute gift.
Dear Reader, Looking for a last-minute, blow-their-mind gift for someone you love (or, even better, yourself)? Join me at the Wise Effort Retreat in Costa Rica, from April 12–19, 2025, at the breathtaking Blue Spirit Retreat Center (located in one of the world’s blue zones). This retreat is more than just a vacation; it’s a chance to dive into the Wise Effort Method, a life-changing approach to aligning your energy with your values and priorities. What Awaits You in Costa Rica: Daily...
Are You Craving a Little More Space?
Dear Reader, I once worked with a couple (who had young kids) who asked me if they could stay in my office for the hour after our session. So…we’d meet, and then I’d leave, giving them room to be with each other, without anything really “to do." We’re craving space more and more these days—but not just any kind of space. We need the kind of space where we’re held by another or where we hold ourselves with utmost care. Like when I tell my family, “Mom needs a little space,” and then I climb...
Wise Effort Tips for the Big Thanksgiving Push
Dear Reader, When you are a therapist, the week before Thanksgiving is a big push. There’s something about gathering with people we love that can stir up all our “stuff.” Here are some typical comments from my couch this week: I’m going to lose it if I am trapped in the kitchen with my mother-in-law/brother/the person who voted for X. I miss my dad. There’s no way I can wrap up work in time. What if I start drinking again? I’ve yet to meet someone who says the holiday season is 100% comfort...
Are You Chasing Chickens?
Dear Reader, If you stopped by my house last week, you would have probably seen me with a broom, my husband with a hockey stick, and my two boys with arms wide open chasing chickens. You see, we moved the chicken coop closer to the bee hives as part of a creek conservation project, and well, the six ladies (as we like to call them) just didn’t want to move with it. Can you relate? Maybe you are both the chaser and the chicken. The chaser is the part of you who wants to change or knows you...
Is Your Genius Your Problem?
Dear Reader, "Your genius is your problem," I told my mom when she found herself stuck in her all-too-familiar pattern of running around helping everyone else out while exhausting herself. My mom's genius? She's insanely good at helping people (she even answers my calls when she's in therapy). It lights her up and makes her feel like she matters. But the thing is, she can get so swept up in rescuing others that she neglects herself. You may relate—running yourself into the ground doing what...
Get creative, move your body and make some banana water
Dear Reader, “I’m making banana water,” my friend Giulia Preziuso told me when I called her this morning after hearing a heatwave was heading to New York, where she lives. “Banana water?” “I have a plant that’s looking a little droopy. It’s easy: you put a banana peel in hot water for a few hours, let it cool, and the water will give your houseplants an extra boost. I learned it from my mom.” Can you use a little banana water right now, too? It builds resilience, but I hesitate to use that...
Turn Your Energy Around
Dear Reader, Lately, I have been thinking about energy: yours, mine, and ours. Most of us are caught in an outdated paradigm regarding energy. We overextend ourselves beyond what’s sustainable and lean on limited supplies of energy—our anxious drive, that extra cup of coffee, our addiction of choice. Meanwhile, we neglect readily available and regenerative energy sources—the cheery guy at Trader Joe's asking about your day, your pet bidding for attention, or your body’s whisper to get...
Learn evidenced-backed, contemplative ideas and practices to help you develop your psychological flexibility. If you want to put your efforts into what you care most about, this twice-monthly Wise Effort newsletter is for you. Join the Wise Effort newsletter community!